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Supporting families - foster care awareness month and beyond

A Brain-Based Guide for Preparing and Supporting Foster, Adoptive, and Kinship Families

This day is more than "I have a dream"

A few insights from Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. about the hard work of wading through tension toward a more just society.

Trauma-Sensitive Tips for Teachers

This quick read can be shared with teachers for some foundational principles and tips for the classroom.

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From stuck and suicidal to feeling safe and in control

How understanding the senses can change... everything

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Why does a bear have elephant parents

Some helpful language for curious kids (and grown-ups) about foster care and adoption.

Hello, Anger

A quick read on anger and what might be hiding underneath.

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Trauma-Sensitive School Counselor Guide

A brief guide with brain-based tips and useful metaphors. Great for sharing with your child's school!

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what to do when fear brain kicks in as a parent

Tips for nurturing the upstairs brain while parenting

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Finding our way forward in the aftermath of violence

A compassionate guide to completing the stress cycle and finding healthy next steps.

"Are those your REAL parents?"

PSA: It’s ok to have more than one or two “real” parents. #wordsmatter

Enough and not enough

A conversation I've had with all members of the adoption triad...

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How School Counselors Can Help Kids Feel and Deal with Anger 

Strategies and supports for dealing with anger...in yourself, kids, parents, and beyond.

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Beautifully-illustrated series that provides language and tools for dealing with tough times and heavy emotions.

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Beautifully-illustrated series that provides language and tools for dealing with tough times and heavy emotions.

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