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Untangling Anger & Shame in Young Children How many times have you heard, “I was NOT mad” when everything you see says the child in front of you is, in fact, roaring mad?  Spitting mad. Throwing shoes mad. Ripping dad’s shirt on the way into therapy mad. My guess is many, many times. That’s where […]

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I Was NOT Mad

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Helping Kids Face Anxiety with Confidence When I first released the book, Hello, Anxiety, someone commented, “I need a book called, Goodbye, Anxiety!” And honestly? I get it.  Anxiety can feel like an avalanche of “what ifs.”  It’s messy and loud and hard to control. Of course we want it gone. But here’s what I’ve learned, both as […]

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From Spiral to Steady

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5 perspective shifts that help me lead with clarity and care One afternoon many years ago, my dad was in town visiting, and we were catching up over chips and salsa at the Mexican restaurant around the corner from my house. I was about ten years into my career, working with kids who had lived […]

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Brain Goggles for Challenging Behavior

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Have you ever heard the line Behavior is communication? We know that kids’ behavior is telling us something (adults too, for that matter), but it can be ridiculously difficult to figure out what disruptive behavior actually means. Over the last twenty years as a trauma therapist, educator, and mom of neurodiverse kids, I’ve become a […]

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